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A Meditation on Hospitality
and Interior Decorating

 

by Marcel A. Duclos

 

 

     
 

“If today you hear his voice,” says the Psalmist, “harden not your hearts.”

I invite you to be comfortable and relaxed: to let go of all anxieties and to rest in the presence of the numinous. Use your imagination. Day-dream if you want. Enter into the story.

This is a meditation on hospitality and interior decorating. First, hospitality. When we are hospitable, we make room for the other, we give of what we have to the other.

This is the story. It comes to us from the Hebrew Scriptures.

A great lady presses the prophet Elisha to accept her hospitality. She and her husband have no extra room for him, but since hospitality consists of taking time and of expending one’s own resources for the other, they build an upper room, a little roof-chamber for the holy man. But they do not stop at that. They also furnish the room to make him welcomed and comfortable. They furnish his room, the story goes on to say, with a bed, a table a seat and a lamp. They literally give him the keys to their home. “Let him stay there whenever he comes to us,” says the lady to her husband. Elisha is then welcomed any time, all the time, no matter what.

Let your imagination guide you for a minute or two. Is there not within us a receptive voice that calls us to make room for, to have time for, to ready the roof-chamber of our deepest self for Wisdom’s visitation?

It strikes me that the four objects mentioned in the story, the bed, the table, the seat and the lamp give us a hint about the humble art of interior decorating, of soul furnishing in preparation for the visit.

Accept for the moment that the manner in which the Shunamite woman and her husband prepared to receive the prophet who speaks and acts in the name of his God teaches us how to receive that which is beyond our own resources.

First, the bed. If we want someone to stay with us and to make of our home their home, in comfort and in privacy, we provide them with a place to sleep. We make them feel safe and secure. We do not hurry their stay. In our own roof-chamber, symbol of our soul, which looks up to the heavens, we need to provide a pillow for the sacred visitor.

Then there is the table and seat. Wisdom does not want to be idle within. She wants to share with us. She invites us to the table we set for her. She does not come uninvited. Indeed, it belongs to us to press her to accept our hospitality as did the lady in the story. Wisdom wants us to desire her. She would embrace us, break bread with us, be our companion, dwell with us, sit with us in our in the furnished and decorated space.

And finally, the lamp. We provide the lamp but not the light. We place the lamp in the upper room. She is the light, the light that shines in our darkness for the good of others and the world. A wise man is reported to have said that “when a lamp is lit, it is not put under the meal tub, but on the lamp stand where it gives light to all in the house.”

“You have taken all of this trouble for us,” says Elisha to the woman, “what can I do for you?” Imagine what it might be that Wisdom would do for us were we to engage in hospitality and interior decorating.

 
     
 

 

     
 

Marcel A. Duclos, M. Th., M. Ed., Professor Emeritus of Psychology, Human Services, and Alcohol/Drug Counseling, maintains a private practice in Concord, NH. Marcel and co-writer / clinician Connie Robillard give trauma healing workshops. Their book, Common Threads – Stories Of Life After Trauma, was published at the end of last year. See website.

 
     

 

     
   
     

 

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